The Drinks That Was Spilled

If your little child spilled or dropped his drinks. 
Before you shout at him for being careless, take a look at his little fingers. 
Are they big enough to hold the cup or glass? 
Are the grip of his fingers strong enough to hold the cup? 
Are his hands strong enough to withstand the weight of the cup?

You might have strong hands and strong grip now, but this will leave you one day. 
There will come a day when your big but old hands could not grip properly anymore.
Your hands might not be stable anymore. 
And you will spill and drop your drinks....: (

The understanding, kindness and compassion you show today to the owner of those little and not so strong hands will one day be returned millions folds.

There is so much anger in this world today, we need to take a step back and evaluate our parenting because the adults today were children 20 or more years before.
How was that anger got entangled in those bodies?

GENTLE, LOVING AND WISE Parenting need to come forward.

Be an understanding, kind, loving and firm parent. 
Correct without invalidating. Applaud good behavior with genuine appreciation. 
That is what GENTLE, LOVING AND WISE PARENTING is all about. 


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Adelia Hana with Kakak Tika... Wit Her Newly Created MyEg Hat

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Dah lama x update blog... Nak kata sibuk dengan kerja, xjugak.. Nak kata sibuk dengan anak, xjugak.... Entah lah...Kehidupan kan ade turun naik nya.. So, anggap jelah, all this while, masa turun...Hehehe...senang kan... Alhamdulillah..syukur kepada Allah... Kandungan dalam perut dah mencecah 14 minggu.. Syukur Ya Allah.. Semoga baby dalam rahim ini sihat dan dilindungi... Adelia Hana gonna be a big sister... Syukur...Adelia juga sihat.. Dah pandai bercakap...Dah mula bertatih...Walaupun semua orang kata, its a bit late for her age... I dunt care... Coz, Adelia sihat.. Adelia aktif.. Very smart girl.. Dah boleh kenal ABC.. Nyanyi Lalalalalla... Bagi salam n jawab salam... Naik turun tangga...She is an adorable... 

Papa adelia..Macam biasa...sibuk dengan sistem... Semalam papa g recording pasal bisness nya di Astro Awani... dah keluar tv pun... Hari ni siaran ulangan.. Hhehe..Papa oh Papa.. Mama plak, mcm biasa je... Mood turun naik... bulan puasa yang lepas mama banyak tinggal pose.. Mama kene gastrik.. Mama mmg xlarat... Raya tahun nih, kita di Melaka... Memang sedih sikit.. Walaupun beraya kat melaka, tapi xberjalan kemana2 pun... Hmmmm.. Balik KL hari Sabtu.. Ahad g jalan KL... Pastu hari isnin sampai rabu dah sambung cuti.. Mengemas barang2.. G jalan dekat2... Then masuk kerja.. Bosannnnn..

Atuk plak dah start bleeding through his anus.. Ade doktor yang kata... maybe tumor ulceration or tumor necrosis... hanya tuhan yang tahu...Semoga abah diberi kekuatan untuk hadapi kesakitan....