Friday, 31 May 2013

Colostomy

What Is A Colostomy

In simple terms, a colostomy is when the colon is cut in half and the end leading to the stomach is brought through the wall of the abdomen and attached to the skin. The end of the colon that leads to the rectum is closed off and becomes dormant. This is known as a "Hartmann's Colostomy". There are other types of colostomy procedures, but this one is the most common.

Usually a colostomy is performed for infection, blockage, or in rare instances, severe trauma of the colon. This is not an operation to be taken lightly. It is truly quite serious and demands the close attention of both patient and doctor. A colostomy is often performed so that an infection can be stopped and/or the affected colon tissues can heal. The alternative to the colostomy is often pretty grim, death. Just be glad you are here. It is important realize that, with a few exceptions, you can look forward to having the colostomy reversed.

The Operation

The operation usually takes between two and four hours depending on difficulty, infection, and the severity of trauma if that is the case. Most of the reasons for a colostomy are: diverticulitis, other inflammatory bowel conditions, or cancer.

Since you are having the operation, you should discuss with your doctor whether or not you should have the appendix removed at the same time, since they are going to be in there anyway. It is not a necessary organ and, if removed, it can never cause you problems in the future.

It is normal practice to open the abdomen with an incision from just below belt line to just below the sternum. This gives open access to the internal organs. If you have infection, the doctor will suction and flush out the contaminates until you are clean.

Your colon is retrieved and inspected to locate the bad area. The bad area is then removed and the rectal end of the colon is sealed off. The end of the colon that comes from the stomach is cleaned and brought through the abdominal wall through another incision to provide an opening for the colon to expel gas and stool. After the colon is sutured in place, the first incision is either sutured or stapled together and the entire area is taped to protect the sutures or staples. A colostomy bag is applied to the area where the colon comes through the abdomen. This area is called a stoma.

During the operation there will be a catheter installed to drain the urine. This usually stays in for a couple of days. You will also have an intravenous (IV) line for medication and fluids. This will stay in for several days.

Recovery

The recovery process is, in large part, what you make of it. You can lie around feeling bad, which will slow or stall your recovery, or you can begin the process that will get you up and out of the hospital. It is perfectly normal to feel badly about being in the hospital and about your condition, but it beats the alternatives. You will adapt and you will get along and enjoy life in a reasonably normal manner if you want to. While I had my colostomy bag I found I could still ride my motorcycle, still hike in the woods, still go swimming, still go boating and camping, I even was able to hang around with my friends and do frivolous things and enjoy myself. The point I really want to make is that just because you are wearing a colostomy bag is no reason to give up the things you like to do or to become a hermit. Enjoy the life that this operation has allowed you to live and look forward to the future. KEEP YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR! There are many operations that are worse and there are many diseases that are worse.

Step one of recovery is to follow your doctors recommendations to the letter. Your first phase will be to walk and cough. Walking and coughing help to settle your stomach and clear your lungs. I found that I could force myself to walk a lot because I knew that I had to build up my muscles. You will probably start out with short trips from your bed and in a day or two you should be able to walk for 10 to 15 minutes at a time (more is better). Take it easy and don't overexert at first. During my first operation it took me two days before I could walk for 10 minutes, and during my last operation I was walking 9 hours after my operation. Keep trying.

Getting out of the bed is half the battle. I found that if I lifted the top of the bed straight up and lowered the bottom of the bed all the way down, I could swing out and slide off the edge of the bed. The first couple of days this is really uncomfortable but remember, your abdomen -or you- has been cut open, your insides have been moved all around, your abdominal muscles seem useless, and you probably just want to lie down and be left alone. Sorry, but you must force yourself to get up if you want to get better.

After a couple of days, walking will become easier but don't be afraid to ask for pain medication if you feel you need it. About day five you will find that it isn't quite so hard to get out of bed and your walks last a lot longer. Recovery from this point is just determination. Be determined.

Once you are reasonably mobile and pass a little gas you are starting to fall into a routine and recovering well enough that the nurses will want to wean you from some or all of your medication and remove IV's. This is good, don't feel that you are dependent upon them or that form of pain control. Pain can be successfully controlled with pills and it is during this weaning process that you will find out what type of pills work best for you. Don't be shy, tell the nurses and your doctor if the pills you are using don't work and give them the opportunity to try something else to ease your pain.

The most important thing now is to get out of the hospital and back home where you can be around your family and/or your stuff.

So You Made It Home

Now that you are home keep walking regularly (often). It is just as important to walk at home as it was in the hospital. The more walking that you do the sooner you get to feeling better. Take any medications when you are supposed to, the doctor didn't prescribe them as an exercise, he prescribed them because they are part of your recovery therapy and he expects you to take them.

Once you start feeling a little stronger you might try backing off the pain pills a little so you don't become too dependent on them. You will find that after a few weeks you won't need them and if you have been doing your exercises, you are getting around pretty well. It seems to take about six weeks for everything to feel OK. I have my own business and I didn't have the luxury of taking time off of work so I had to work lightly after I had been home for about a week. After two and a half weeks I was working at about 80% and after five weeks I was working normally. Again it is important to not over exert yourself and when you get tired, take a rest or a nap. Your recovery attitude will dictate your recovery speed for the most part. It seems like it was about 2 1/2 months before I went through the whole day and didn't think about any aches and pains. After about 4 months I felt really good (normal). I understand that with such a serious operation it probably takes about a year to really recover and for everything to be normal.

You may notice that your incisions leak or bleed a little. This is not unusual and it should not last long, but always consult your doctor if you are not sure or you are uncomfortable about it. Always keep your incisions clean.

By couple of weeks after your operation your doctor will remove your sutures or staples. You may notice that the area around the incision is hard and irregular. Don't worry about this, time will take care of it. After a few months, the lumps and irregularities will even out and the hard area will become less hard. Like the saying goes "Time Heals All Wounds", there is a lot of truth to it. You can try a lotion with vitamin E and lanolin to help soften the skin and reduce itching.

How To Deal With Your Colostomy Bag

There are different types of colostomy bags. Some strap on, some stick on. I preferred the stick on type because they required less fussing with. I tried the strap on type and it was uncomfortable around my abdomen. You may not agree. The strap on bag fits over the stoma and a belt goes around you to hold it in place. The stick on bag fits over the stoma and is held on by a wax that adheres to you. The stick on bag requires more attention during installation. Both bags require that you shave the area of the skin around the stoma. I shaved about two inches around the stoma. The reason you have to shave this area is twofold. One is for sanitary purposes and the other is, if you use the stick on bag, so you don't feel as if you are pulling the hairs out when you remove the bag after a few days. It is bad enough after a few days when the hairs have had a chance to grow a little and attach themselves to the wax. You can't stop this, you can only minimize it. In the process of shaving around the stoma, you may touch the stoma with the razor unit and the stoma may begin to bleed. This may also occur if you wash the stoma a little too aggressively. Don't worry, the stoma is very sensitive and bleeds easily if scrapped or nicked. The stoma does not have pain sensors for this so you must be careful and watchful of what you are doing. If the bleeding is severe or won't stop, call your doctor or get medical assistance. Most of the time when you have bleeding it will be minimal and stop rather quickly.

After you have shaved and washed the stoma area you are ready to install a new bag. If you choose the strap on style, strap it on and you are done. If you choose the stick on style you will need to cut the wax area to fit your stoma size. Fitting the stoma is not very hard. The box that the bag came in will have a cardboard piece with a series of holes in it. Find the hole that most closely fits your stoma, but does not pinch the edges of the stoma. Place the hole selected over the back of the bag and note the area that has to be removed. Remove with scissors. Peel the protective cover off the wax and put a thin bead of stoma paste around the very edge of the hole you just cut. This acts as a seal and a fluid barrier. Don't use too much as the more paste you use the less wax you will have sticking to you. Apply the bag to clean, dry skin so that the opening for draining the bag hangs straight down, this makes it easier to clean out between changes. Clamp the bottom of either bag and you are done. This sounds complicated but it isn't after you have done it a few times. You should be able to change the bag in about 5 to 7 minutes. Always carry an extra bag with you, JUST IN CASE. They fit easily into a back pocket or purse and in an emergency you will be glad you have it.

Now the hard part - cleaning out the bag. This is not a pleasant task at first. If you are sensitive you will not like it but you will get used to it. When I changed my first bag I thought I would gag from the smell. You are closer to the stomach and the smell isn't good. I got a swimming nose plug from the sporting goods store so I didn't have to smell it. After a couple of weeks you get used to it and it won't bother you. First you may need to bleed gas off from the bag. You still pass gas, but now it goes into the bag and slowly inflates it like a balloon. To bleed the gas off tip the bottom of the bag up to provide an air passage to release the gas but not the stool, if there is any, and press gently on the bag until it deflates. If there is enough stool to require emptying, use the gas to your advantage. I sat backwards on the toilet so that I had a better shot at the bowl. Open the clamp on the bottom of the bag, hold the bag downward, apply light pressure to the top of the bag and let the gas push the stool down and out. After this you can use a good spray bottle to clean out the bag. wipe off the bottom with a piece of toilet paper, install the clamp and you're done. It may sound difficult but it isn't and you'll get the hang of it after a couple of times. You'll be amazed at how long a roll of toilet paper will last.

Sometimes you will notice that the area under the wax on your bag itches. There isn't a lot you can do about this short of removing the bag and scratching it. One way to ease this is to apply pressure to the spot that itches, this will help.

Another thought about changing your bag is to do it before you have a meal or well afterwards. The reason for this is when your stomach is full it expands your belly. If you apply the bag under this condition you may find that when this expansion is gone, your skin wants to be smaller and the bag wont let it, thus being a little uncomfortable. Also, when you install the bag, be sure to stand up straight so you don't fold the skin. Standing and sitting flex the bag enough without these extra dimensions coming into play.

Straight Talk About Daily Life And Events

You will likely encounter a number of situations that you may not foresee and I will try to recall as many of them as I can remember having and tell you how I managed or overcame them.

Bag Blowout:

The first clue is a telltale odor - don't dismiss it. Check it out and replace the bag if necessary. Earlier, I suggested that you carry a spare bag, this is why. In almost a year I only had this happen twice but the spare was a real lifesaver. A note - the bag you carry as a spare should already have the hole cut to fit so you don't have to mess with it in some rest room.

Passing Gas:

Beware it isn't always silent. You will get a funny feeling in your stomach, learn to recognize it, and this can give you as much as 15 seconds notice, not very much, then sometimes you get no advance notice. I handled this with a sense of humor and no-one was ever offended, here's how. Simply smile and say "excuse me but I recently had an operation and I don't have very much control over that yet". I suppose you could stick a pin into the top of the bag to relieve the gas but I never tried it, you might give it a shot.

Swimming and Showering With The Bag On:

Water is not the bags best friend. What happens is that the wax absorbs the water from the side and if exposed to enough water for long enough the wax sort of turns to a soft putty-like substance. It wont stay on for long. If you go swimming, keep it to about 45 minutes and have a spare bag ready to install when you are done. REMEMBER: The stoma and your incisions are not able to deal with sunlight like your skin so you don't want to expose these areas to direct sunlight any more than necessary. I never experienced it, but, I think it might be pretty painful to get a sunburn on these areas and it could cause other problems. I used a baggy swimsuit and pulled it up over the stoma and bag. That seemed to do the trick plus it covered the area so it wouldn't bother anyone else.

Stool size:

I found that roughage, salads and the like, are among the most efficient foods and produce the least amount of stool while fast food restaurant fare produces the most stool in relation to intake. You can watch what you eat and keep an eye on how long different foods take to process and how efficient they are and keep your own mental notes. This may not seem important but it is. You don't want to eat pork and beans 5 hours before you go to a quiet church service. Neither would you want to eat a fast food lunch if you were planning a long trip. You can regulate your food to compliment the activity you have planned and thus keep embarrassing situations and inconveniences to a minimum.

$5.00 Per Bag:

With tax, colostomy bags cost just under $5.00 each. This can get expensive if you change them too often. About every 3 to 5 days is the useful life of a bag if you are careful. Keep the bag clean and watch for flexing of the wax along skin folds or the beltline area. If flexing is occurring it will soften the wax to the point where it will blow out. Don't let the bag get over half full of stool, and don't let the bag balloon over half full from gas. When it gets to these points, empty it. (Since the publication of this article, the price of bags has risen to over $30.00!)

Bag Cleaning Adapter For Your Sink:

You can buy an adapter for your sink faucet that allows you to attach a garden hose to it. Waterbed stores have plastic ones hardware stores have more durable metal ones. You can than adapt a small hose to the faucet which will help you clean the bag out but don't use too much pressure. I was able to adapt a kitchen sink sprayer for rinsing dishes to my bathroom sink and this gave me an on/off handle to better control the water flow. When I was done cleaning the bag I would remove the hose from the sink, clean it, and store it. Except for the 1/4" adapter on the faucet no one was the wiser. I found everything I needed at a local hardware store and it cost well under $20.00.

Your Rectum:

You will find that you may still want to eliminate rectally. I questioned this at first. How can the rectum function if it is essentially "out of the loop". I learned that the rectum still produces mucus and at a certain point it needs to eliminate what it has accumulated. It usually isn't very much but it is normal. On my first colostomy I eliminated mucus four or five times in the first month then nothing after that. On my second colostomy it occurred about every 7 or 8 days regularly. I would suppose that either is normal. Just don't be alarmed if it happens. Ask your doctor if you're not sure.

What About A Colostomy Reversal

This is a decision that is for you and your doctor to make. If you decide to have a reversal you will find the operation and recovery to be very similar to the first. Lots of walking but generally less hospital and recovery time. I noticed less pain and better mobility from the beginning. If your doctor will do this, it is well worth the trouble, but remember it is not a piece of cake. Prepare yourself for this operation by exercising and getting your weight to a good level (ask your doctor). Be as physically fit and as mentally prepared as you can. This makes the operation easier and the recovery quicker and to some degree less painful.

Conclusion

Just a few thoughts in conclusion. You have had a serious operation, listen to your doctor. This is not the end of the world, but you will have to deal with it. Treat your recovery seriously and be determined. Whenever you are feeling badly, think back a week and you won't feel so badly. You don't have to tough out the pain, that is why your doctor gave you a prescription. Time and exercise can become your best friends. Finally, and perhaps most importantly, KEEP YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR. There may be days that a sense of humor is all you have.


Thursday, 30 May 2013

Perjalanan Abah Menghadapi Kanser - 12

Salam.. Today is the day.. Abah akan operation hari nih.. Kita sume gathered kat umah mak.. As 4 am in the morning dah bgun n siap.. 5.30am kita dah gerak g hospital.. Sampai hospital dalam pukul 6.30am.. Mama naik g surau ngan amai.. Kakcik n mak lang bawak adelia naik tingkat 5.. Kita jumpa abah bergilir2.. About 8.00 am.. Abah dah tukar baju, pakai stokin for blood circulation.. Waiting for troley bed.. About 8.30am, bed sampai n abah naik.. MA tolak abah.. Sampai depan pintu, abah nak jumpa Adelia.. Adelia takut.. Sebab abah pakai cap.. 
Selesai diwad, kita semua gerak g tingkat 2.. Dewan bedah.. Kita ikut je katil abah.. Nampak airmata abah mengalir.. Mungkin sedih, mungkin takut, mungkin cemas.. Abah orang yg kuat dan tabah.. Tapi kebelakangan ni, selalu nampk abah menangis.. Abah kene kuat.. Dalam dewan bedah, mama, mak lang, mak su, kakcik, ayah, epa ajam, epa boy, masuk salam atuk n cium atuk.. Bagi atuk kata semangat.. Nampak mata atuk yg merah.. Menangis dah menahan sebak.. Dah 2 jam since abah masuk dewan bedah.. Mama bacakan yassin utk atuk..
Around 2.30pm, dR zairul keluar n panggil abang ngah.. Lama... Cukup lama... Mama tau something is wrong.. Every second, mama rasa too long...mama boleh agak.. 1/2jam! Abg ngah keluar n i can see his face.. Dadik wasnt looking at us.. His eyes was red.. He cried.. Mama tau something is wrong.. Very wrong!! Very very wrong!!
Keadaan abah:
- colorectal cancer stage 4
- tumor getting bigger
- tumor stick n affect back bone
- bladder was not affected
- unable to remove tumor
Ya Allah.. Air mata mama mula mengalir.. Mama tau abah wont last long.. DR kata makin kuat abah, makin lama lah hayat.. Ya Allah.. Sungguh besar dugaan Mu.. Mama dah rasa nak pengsan.. Tears was all over my face.. Mama sgt sedih!! 
Mama xboleh nak tahan.... Mama g surau.. Mama solat zohor n menangis puas3.. Mama nekad, this is my final tears.. Mama kena kuat.. Atuk dah g wad masa mama kat surau dgn mak su.. Kita naik wad 5.. Abah was so weak.. Tiub sana sini.. Ya Allah.. Abah mengerang sakit.. Mama ajar atuk cakap Allah. Mama pegang tangan atuk.. Mama urut dada atuk..  At about 5.15pm, nurse bgtau nak tukar wad.. Atuk need extra care.. Pindah wad surgeri 6.. Sedih!! Mama sangat sedih!! Mama kuatkan semangat untuk atuk.. Hanya untuk atuk.. Ya Allah, kuatkan lah Mama untuk atuk.. Mlm xboleh jaga kat wad 6... So semua kena balik.. Mama memang terkilan.. Xtau lah.. Cant describe by words.. The only things is, mama will pray, so that atuk kuat dan dipermudahkan...









Perjalanan Abah Menghadapi Kanser - 11

Hari ke dua abah masuk wad.. Mama bangun pagi pukul 5.. Actually xtido pun.. Abah asyik bangun g toilet.. N doctor sumtimes datang check ECG abah.. Well good.. Abah xde diabetis, high blood.. The only things make abah sick is his rectal tumor cancer..  Today abah looks better.. He can talk n main dengan cucu2.. Abah nak jumpa alya n adelia.. So kita bawak abah keluar wad sekejap.. Breakfast n baca surat khabar.. N main2 ngan cucu nya.. For the whole day, dR come n go.. Dr brief abah n us on the process n procedure.. We understood.. A lot of procedure.. InshaAllah.. Everything will goes well..




Wednesday, 29 May 2013

Perjalanan Abah Menghadapi Kanser - 10

Assalamualaikum..
28 May 13.. Tarikh abah kene masuk wad.. Everybody realise that. So, mama n papa bawak atuk untuk cx in HUKM. Mama n papa pick up atuk kat umah ayah on monday night.. Atuk tido umah kita.. Then kita bangun seawal 5 pagi.. Bangun, mandi bersiap.. Mama kejutkan atuk.. Atuk pun mandi n siap.. Papa siapkan adel... Gerak dari rumah about 6.15... Highway clear.. Alhamdulillah dipermudahkan jalan..
Sampai hospital, kaunter nombor pun blm buka.. Mama g beli breakfast atuk n bg atuk mkn dulu... Then kul 8, kaunter buka.. Dapat no 1004.. Terbaik!! Sampai giliran.. Dapat wad 5D.. Tapi xready lagi.. Tunggu punya tunggu punya tunggu, lbh kurang kul 9.30 kot dah ready wad.. Tapi wad 5H.. Itu wad tumpang sebenarnya.. 
So mlm nih mama bermalam di hospital










Tuesday, 28 May 2013

My Dream House

Assalamualaikum... Last week, mama n papa dah decide to move out.. We are going for a new hse.. Rumah teres 2 tingkat.. Adelia dah makin besar n need healthy environment.. So, mmg rezeki.. Ada rumah yg dicari2. Dekat pun dekat.. Syukur.. Allah memudahkan jalan.. Kami start packing barang2.. Barang mmg banyak.. Tapi dah start awal, so xde lah terasa sangat.. Dapat kunci on Thursday.. Mama balik keje, amik kunci.. Then, lps maghrib hantar adelia rumah nenek.. Mak lang tolong jaga sekejap sementara tunggu kakcik balik.. Then, mama n papa gerak g new hse.. Start kemas lbh kurang jam 10 mlm n hbs jam 2.30 pagi.. Setel kemas.. Mama n papa gerak balik rumah nenek.. Balik, tido, xingat punye.. Sakit badan.. Letih.. Friday, mama n papa pindah barang2 yg kita dah packing.. Till sunday, sume barang transfered to t new hse.. Mama n papa kemas till monday n siappppppp.. Mama mmg xsuka tangguh keje.. Dah selesai nanti baru lega sikit.. 



Monday, 20 May 2013

Musim Sakit

Assalamualaikum..
This week, Adelia tak sihat.. Hari Khamis, masa g umah mak, dah perasan ade naik ruam kecik kat tangan n lengan Adelia.. Mama tought it was rush.. Ye lah musim panas kan sekarang.. Sangat pansssssss... Kesian adelia.. Pagi Jumaa, Mama tengok xde lah banyak.. Tapi bila Mama dah g keje, Papa whatsapp mama bgtau, makin teruk tangan Adelia.. Papa amik gambar.. Aah memang banyak.. Dah merebak sampai kaki, badan belakang, kat punggung pun ade.. Mama jumpa 2nd bos, tunjuk gambar Adelia. N mintak bawak Adelia g DEMC.. 



 Walk in Demc.... Pergggghhh.. Nombor ...7516...Dr Ahmad xde.. Cuti.. So mintak dR Fazillah.. She's good.. Very nice person.. Adelia dah tido masa masuk jumpa dR.. Tapi bila mama angkat adelia letak ats katil, adelia bangun n meragam sikit... dR check, Alhamdulillah.. Bukan HFMD.. Syukur.. dR ckap maybe allergic.. To dust, new bed sheet or toys or food maybe.. Dr bagi krim, ubat mandi n ubat gatal..So far, adelia nampak ade improvement.. Dah kering sikit tangannya.. Kaki je banyak lagi.. InshaAllah 2/3 hari elok lah kot.. Kene rajin sapu ubat.. Mama kerap mandikan adelia.. So that, adelia xpanas n menggaru.. Syukur Adelia xdemam...Boleh makan n minum...Syukur..

Next... Iskandar Dzulkarnain.. Jatuh basikal.. OMG...teruk sangat mukanya.. Adoiiiiii... Mama tengok pun dah rasa nak menangis.. Tapi mama kuatkan semangat... Sdih tengok anak sekecil nih nak menahan sakit... Xtertanggung rasanya hati mak bapak tgk anak jadi mcm ni... Syukur juga Iskandar xserius... 


This was at Hospital.. Kalau ikut kata Ana, kawan boy yang bawak Is g hospital...



Lepas balik hospital.. Day 2 lah nih...

Dah boleh main Ipad.. Ader improvement... Syukur.. Ain interframe kat sana... 
Cantikkkkk..Macam Mama nya... Memang cantikkkk




Day 3.. He is getting better.. can smile like always...




Next...Nenek... Kencing manis tinggi.. High blood pressure... Jantung was not stabil... Mula2 g dR rozita... Then g Alam Medic buat ECG n Xray... Dapat refer letter g Hospital Sungai Buloh...Kene tahan for procedur until 8pm...


This is Kakcik!!!! Muka poyo di pagi Isnin..Huhu..



Adelia tido style...


Tuesday, 14 May 2013

Mothers Day 2013











Fertility Treatment - 2nd Edition - 2nd Cycle

Assalamualaikum... First cycle..unsuccesful....!!! GAGAL! Mama n Papa was dissapointed... Whatever it is, mama pray to Allah for the best.. Coz Allah know better.. Kita hanya mampu merancang...Selebihnya, mama serahkan kepada rezeki yg ditetapkan..
Minggu nih, Adelia kurang sihat.. She had flu, n bit of cough.. Tapi xpe.. Ubat semua ade.. InshaAllah, nanti sihat lah.. Memang musim sekarang nih..Alya pun xsihat.. LAst weekend she was so dull.. Xde nak senyum, xde gelak besar bila kene agah  like always.. Setiap kali minum susu, dia muntah.. A lots..Macam air paip.. Mama worried about her.. Terfikir nak suruh bawak g hospital, tapi xtercakap.. End up Sunday nite, Alya muntah lagi n so tired.. Alya x aktif.. Bawak g DEMC n dR kata angin coz perut dia kembung n cara bottle feed xbetul..
Hmmm..berbalik kepada Mama nye treatment:

May 2013

Tablet Clomid- 50mg - 2 tablet daily
Tablet Metformin 500mg - 1 tablet daily
Asid Folic - 1 tablet daily

Mama dah loose some weight.. Hmmm.. Hopefully, next cycle, kita akan dengar berita gembira.. InshaAllah...

Forgotten Page

Assalamualaikum.. It’s been a while since my last entry.. lepas mak meninggal dunia, takde lagi perasaan utk menulis.. aku memilih utk memen...